I was a thumb sucker from day one, and she always says I was the best baby. My mom didn't push me to stop and would tell whom ever had an opinion about it, I would stop when I was ready. My father would try to put the bitter nail polish on and I would endure the bitterness until eventually it wore away. I understand where my father was coming from, probably thinking this child is going to need braces, which was the case. I did eventually stop.... in fifth grade. One of the beautiful things about my mother is she lets me be who I am. When I wanted to change career paths and leave Iowa State after attending for only two weeks to pursue a nursing career, she said ok without hesitation.
One of the hardest things I ever had to tell her was I choose not to have children of my own. I actually made sure her and I had a glass of wine before I had the conversation. I didn't want to crush her dreams of being a grandma once again, one of her favorites things. After I bravely got it out, she told me, "Miss I support your decision."
My mother has loved me through some ugly moments, especially in my teenage years. I remember wanting independence so badly from my parents when I was a teenager. One time when I was probably sixteen I was going to the mall with my good friend, and really we were just going to the mall. I didn't want to tell my mom where I was going because I didn't feel like I should have to. Well my friend came over and my mom asked her where we were going, and needless to say I didn't make to to the mall that day. I am sure I did not give that one up without a fight, but she loved me through all the fights I put up.
I love this picture of her. I found it a couple of years ago, her beauty and that smile takes my breath away. My mother's love has taught me to be maternal in other areas of my life, as an aunt, sister, daughter, friend and especially a nurse. Medicine can do some amazing things but doesn't compare to the love of a mother.
I'm proud to say I am a product of her, and I thank God she is mine. When it comes to mothers and daughters, we are the perfect fit.
